Are You Struggling To Find The Right Sport For Your Athletic Daughter, Consider This…

Asia Mape
In Balance, Learn, Rugby
By Asia Mape | August 8, 2016

Are You Struggling To Find The Right Sport For Your Daughter, Consider This…

Soccer, volleyball, basketball and softball have the most opportunities at the high school and college level.  But there are also WAY MORE girls playing those sports and competing for those spots and even for scholarships. If you have an athletic girl who may not be good enough to play in one of those top four sports, but is still a good athlete, it’s time to think outside the box.  Even if it’s not a scholarship your child is after, it’s possible that excelling in one of these sports may help get her accepted into a university or at the very least, discover a new passion.


Women’s rugby is one of the fastest growing sports in the United States and according to, it’s one of the three emerging women’s sports in the NCAA along with equestrian and beach volleyball. Equestrian is a very specialized skill; beach volleyball typically draws from the indoor volleyball athletes; so rugby is a wild card.


imagesIt’s the second most popular sport in the world next to soccer and as an NCAA-designated “emerging” sport (a sport they are testing out to see if it can gain status as an official NCAA sport), college rugby has grown more than 42% in the last several years. Brown, Harvard, and Dartmouth all just added women’s rugby to their schools.  According to, there are currently 15 NCAA programs and 347 women’s club programs at colleges and universities that offer women’s rugby. (For a complete list click here.)  To top that off, rugby was back in the Olympics in Rio for the first time since 1924.  And if rugby is taking off more at the college level and above, then it’s possible the popularity will start to trickle down into the youth scene and become more easily available, like Lacrosse has done.

Wedr mccoy3 interviewed the former US Women’s Olympic Coach (and Neurologist) Dr. Jules McCoy and asked her a few questions about the game.

1. ILTWYP.COM: What type of athlete makes a good women’s rugby player – what strengths or attributes would be beneficial?

Dr. McCoy: In short, girls/women who love being physical, and who love “gaming”  their opposition. Rugby is a physical contest of physical wills. Gladiator vs Gladiator. It’s the ONLY sport that allows “girls” to take out their aggression by tackling; an activity that is very empowering. One of my favorite sayings is “if you can play rugby, you learn you can do anything”.

2. ILTWYP.COM: Do you need to have played rugby for a long time in order to play in college or do a lot of the athletes come from other sports?

Dr. McCoy: NO. Because Rugby is not a primary sport in the USA, everyone playing, coaching and refereeing the sport is very welcoming to any and all interested parties, at every level. To make the National team, one either has to have knowledge of the game OR exhibit very athletic qualities, but at every other level, you can bet if a player signs up, the coach and players of that team will go out of their way to help teach and retain that new player!


3. ILTWYP.COM: What is something about women’s rugby that is misunderstood by the average person?

Dr. McCoy: Other than the obvious fear of injury, I would guess it’s the fear of the sport’s DIVERSITY. Rugby has a position for every size, shape, and athletic ability. Like soccer, it is a sport that depends on player decisions, not necessarily coaching decisions, which is unlike most “American” based sports. Unlike other sports, ANYONE can score, which I have found most appealing to the next generation’s youth (who feel constantly micro managed!). Many Americans that play rugby have a parent from a rugby playing nation, which means that one gets to play with folks who might have grown up watching the game, which brings new cultures into play here in the US. Lastly, rugby attracts athletes who APPRECIATE Diversity, which makes for a very eclectic and interesting community!

4. ILTWYP.COM:  What Did having rugby in the Olympics mean to the sport?

Dr. McCoy: For those of us who have been championing the sport here in the USA, the Olympics means redemption, and legitimacy! I’m 52, and have been either playing or coaching in the USA for 30 years; most people I have encountered have considered my passion for rugby as a “habit” or “cult” activity, since rugby is not shown on US television. So, personally for most of us in the USA, rugby in the Olympics means “Hey, SEE, I told you it was cool!”

To find out which colleges offer women’s rugby, click here for complete list. And for an overall look at women’s rugby college stats, click here. 


  1. Great Article. I like that you are showing parents some options for girls. And I really like your website in general. It is a great resource for parents in a crazy world of youth sports. If I can ever be a resource for you about recruiting let me know. Keep up the good work!

    • Bryan,
      Thank you so much for the feedback! We’d love to collaborate with you, we are always looking for knowledgeable partners to draw from and educate our readers. I will be in touch and you do the same.


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