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College Club Sports: The Best-Kept Secret in Youth Sports

College Club Sports: The Best-Kept Secret in Youth Sports

College Club Sports: The Best-Kept Secret in Youth Sports. For many families, the dream is clear: Division I athletics. A scholarship. National Signing Day. The social media post. The spotlight.

But here’s what more people should be talking about:
There’s another path that’s still competitive, still meaningful, and maybe even more aligned with what today’s youth athletes actually want and need.

It’s collegiate club sports, and it’s one of the best-kept secrets in youth sports.

When an Athlete Chooses NOT to Play in College

The Shifting Landscape of College Athletics

College sports are in a moment of real upheaval—and it’s affecting athletes and families across the board.

Several colleges have eliminated programs due to budget cuts or shifting priorities:

At the same time, a growing number of athletes are facing something even more personal: schools pulling offers after commitments were made.

With NCAA settlements introducing new roster limits and schools bracing for financial strain, coaches are forced to cut down numbers. This is leading to more incoming freshmen losing their spots, often unexpectedly and without warning.

All of this has created an environment where families need to look beyond the traditional varsity pathway. Because right now, even a verbal commitment isn’t always a guarantee.

Why Collegiate Club Sports Are So Valuable

In club sports, the students are in charge. They manage every aspect:

It’s not just about playing a sport you love—it’s about learning how to run something, solve problems, and lead people. These are the kinds of life and career skills that matter.

And yes, it still looks great on a resume—but not just as a bullet point. Because when an employer asks what you’ve done that shows initiative, collaboration, or leadership—this is it.

When It’s the Right Fit

One of my best friends’ daughters is a great soccer player.  She played at a high level and was absolutely good enough to keep going—but she also had other passions. She wanted her college experience to leave room for her academics and pursuits in theater. She attends Boston University and has starred in several school plays and on the soccer field. She also manages to keep up her studies and has plenty of time for a social life.

Another woman I spoke with helped found her university’s women’s rugby club. She says that single experience—starting something, managing it, growing it—opened doors in her professional life. It wasn’t just a cool story; it got her hired.

It’s Hardly A Secret

According to NIRSA (National Intramural-Recreational Sports Association):

These aren’t glorified rec leagues. They’re structured, competitive, and often led by athletes who chose this path not because they weren’t “good enough,” but because they were thoughtful about the college experience they wanted.

What Students Gain

Helpful Resources

Final Thought

For athletes who still love the game—but want space to grow in other areas—collegiate club sports might be the perfect fit. It’s not a backup plan. It’s a smart, intentional choice that can offer joy, leadership, and balance.

I say that as someone with a daughter playing Division I soccer and another headed to a D1 beach volleyball program. For them, that path has been exactly right. But the truth is, that’s not the best fit for everyone, and with the current landscape shifting so quickly, it’s never been more important to understand all the options.

Sometimes the dream evolves. And sometimes, the thing you never considered is exactly what your child needed.

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Asia Mape is a 4-time Emmy Award-winning sports journalist, the mother of three daughters, a former Division 1 basketball player and founder of Ilovetowatchyouplay.com, a digital platform that has served millions of parents and coaches as a guide and resource for raising healthy, happy, and successful athletes. Ilovetowatchyouplay.com has been featured in The Washington Post, USA Today, The Today Show, Bleacher Report, Inc., NFL.com, and Sports Illustrated.

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