The Highs and Lows of Being A Youth Sports Parent
by Wendy Clegg
The Highs and Lows of Being A Youth Sports Parent. It’s almost the weekend, and I am sure of a few things. Most of us will be at a tournament or a game. Some of our kids will make a mistake. Some kids may not play at all. Some venues won’t have enough seats. There will be some “unpopular” calls. There will be MANY opportunities for players, coaches, refs, and parents to “shake off” the bad stuff and focus on moving forward.
I also know there will be some amazing moments.
Our kids may bond a little more with their teammates. We will bond with other parents. There will be opportunities to learn something in every game. Encouragement and respect go a long way. We will have long days, but the players and coaches will have longer days. Remember that this is not their day job for most coaches. They coach so our kids can play. Thank them (the same goes for most refs, and none are making millions).
Don’t forget to BREATHE. Attitude is everything at these tournaments, both on and off the court, and our players are watching us! All the little things that drive you crazy in the moment will mean nothing a few weeks {or a few days}. Be supportive, have a good time, and soak up all this time with your child.
As a mom of five (four of whom are adults and no longer play sports), you will most likely miss this when it is gone. Try to look for the bright spots this weekend; if you can’t find one, try to make one. The weekend can be a success if your kids are respectful, supportive team players willing to learn on and off the court. Good luck, everyone!
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